I hate it when I can’t find a certain menu item. It happens a lot these days as I jump between multiple versions of different software.
Mac OS X Leopard adds a search field to the top of the Help menu. In addition to various help topics (which I usually ignore) it pulls up a list of all the menu items that include any search terms you type.
Highlight those menu items (using the arrow keys on your keyboard) and the appropriate menu pops up with a floating pointer showing you where the command is located.
With typical Apple finesse, a subtle animation helps draw your eye.